I wonder whether you were ever told that you were a poor speller at school. If you were, I bet you can still remember exactly who told you that, where you were and how you felt……. The power of teachers and I should know…. I used to be one !Now think back and remember a time when someone said to you, “Excellent! Well done! Brilliant!” Close your eyes and really remember the picture of where you were, what you were doing and how you felt ‘ really hear the words that the person said to you clearly and let the warm feelings of success and pride cover you like a lovely warm blanket. Take those great feelings and sounds and pictures and spin them up and down through your body and then squeeze your right hand into a fist to anchor them into your memory.When I work with kids in school nowadays as a coach I always get them into a positive and confident state first as it aids learning and let’s the whole experience feel more relaxed and enjoyable.I think getting kids into a really positive state first is really important for you as parents to remember to […]
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If you’re married, you’re probably sexually intimate and hopefully, emotionally intimate as well. But there may be one area of intimacy that you’re missing - and that could be a big mistake!Culturally, we link the concept of intimacy with romance, not realizing that we are talking about two different things. Romance is make-believe, it’s Disney, it’s a stage set - and it’s great.But not when it comes to money, which operates in the real world. When we think about money romantically, we’re basically not thinking at all. We’re just fantasizing.We need a wider definition of intimacy, a concept we currently link with the physical, sexual or emotional revealing of ourselves to another person in a most private way. We need to think of intimacy as transparency, especially when it comes to marital finances because so much is at stake.Unfortunately, full financial disclosure is still treated as taboo in many marriages, especially when the man makes the big money decisions. A wife may be contributing a significant amount of money through her work, yet may go decades knowing little about her shared finances.A wife shouldn’t have to learn about financial insecurity at a time of crisis in her life, such as […]
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